AI girlfriend apps compared for adults in Germany

Nomi suits users who want a long-running conversation with one or several fictional adult companions and who care more about memory tools than about explicit images. The free plan has no end date and allows 50 messages per day, with 400 characters per input. Paid accounts can write 800 characters (checked 2026-10-28). The free plan needs no card, but voice features become read-only without a subscription.

Nomi documents persistent conversational memory, Mind Maps, backstories and shared notes. You use these tools to steer what a companion should know, but they do not guarantee that it recalls every detail correctly. The Standard plan includes up to 10 companions and 10 group chats, plus voice calls and video. Images come in photorealistic, anime and fantasy styles. Adult text is allowed; nude companion photos are not, under the current wiki policy.

Web prices are in US dollars: US$15.99 per month, US$39.99 for three months and US$99.99 per year. The official pages do not confirm a German App Store price, so there is no euro figure to quote. Nomi Credits pay for extras such as a selfie (1 credit), an HD video (10 credits) or an additional Nomi slot (100 credits). You can only buy them with an active subscription, and they do not expire.

Nomi states that it does not use end-to-end encryption. To delete the account, go to Profile, Account Settings and Delete account, confirm by email and type DELETE. Personal information is then removed within about 28 days, with exceptions. Uninstalling the app does not cancel billing, and Nomi does not routinely refund unused time. Trustpilot showed 2.3 from 42 reviews on 2026-10-28.

Secrets AI pairs a daily free chat allowance with a metered currency, Moments, for media and calls. Free accounts can send 20 messages per day, and the counter resets 24 hours after the first message. Custom characters have a separate allowance of 100 messages in total (checked 2026-10-29). Free accounts cannot buy Moments. The official tier guide contradicts itself on free audio calls, so don't count on getting one.

Premium costs US$19.99 per month or US$109.99 per year and includes 8,000 Moments per month plus unlimited messaging. Ultimate costs US$39.99 per month or US$319.99 per year with 15,000 Moments. A Premium image costs 50 Moments, as does one minute of an audio call, so the Premium grant covers 160 images, 160 call minutes or a mix of both. Video costs far more: a 720p five-second Cinematic clip takes 1,200 Moments. Monthly grants reset, while purchased top-ups do not expire. A seasonal sale may discount only the first term.

Memory works automatically for each companion and covers conversation context plus saved details. Image styles are realistic and anime. You can pay by Visa, Mastercard, Discover or crypto, with a US$20 minimum. Card subscriptions renew and prepaid keys do not. The statement shows S LABS INC.

EU customers have a 14-day withdrawal right: a full refund if they have not used the service, and proportional treatment if they have. Crypto payments are generally non-refundable. To cancel, open Settings, Manage Subscription and Cancel Subscription. Chats, memories and characters stay after the paid period ends. Trustpilot showed 4.5 from 287 reviews on 2026-10-28.

Candy.ai is built around custom companions with realistic or anime visuals, in-chat selfies and video. The free preview is counted in total, not per day: 5 chat messages across characters, 1 created character and 1 generated image (checked 2026-10-29). That is enough to see the interface but not enough to judge a longer conversation.

Premium is shown with a dollar sign and no confirmed currency code. The first month costs 9.99 and renews at 13.99. Quarterly billing charges 26.97 upfront, which works out to 8.99 per month. Yearly billing charges 47.88 upfront, or 3.99 per month. The standard paid plan includes 100 tokens per month. Premium Plus includes 330 tokens, 20 memory slots and 5 chat clones. The public help pages do not list token pack prices, so your real monthly cost depends on how much you generate beyond the included tokens. You can pay with major credit cards, crypto, Apple Pay and Google Pay, and the statement shows EverAI.

For Germany the terms matter (section 10.4.3, checked 2026-10-29). EU customers can withdraw from the initial purchase within 14 days of the confirmation email, minus the prorated value of services already used. Renewals are not covered. To cancel, open My Profile, Settings and Unsubscribe. Deleting the account is a separate step under Danger Zone.

The operator, EverAI Limited, is based in Malta. Its privacy policy dated 2026-10-19 covers AI training and possible human review of de-identified interactions. Account data is generally kept up to 3 years after last activity, and financial records for 10 years. Age is handled by an 18+ affirmation. The Trustpilot profile showed a removal notice on 2026-10-28. The Candy.ai review covers the account in more depth.

OurDream runs in the browser as a PWA and has no native app. It suits adults who are fine with a subscription that covers text while media and voice are metered in Dreamcoins. On a paid plan, standard text chat costs 0 coins and a Genius response costs 1 coin. Free accounts pay 1 coin per chat message. No fixed sign-up or daily grant for everyone is confirmed; coins have come from occasional Discord events and referrals (cost guide dated 2026-03-02).

Standard Monthly costs US$19.99 and includes 1,000 Dreamcoins at purchase and at each renewal. Standard Annual costs US$119.88, shown as US$9.99 per month, with 2,000 coins at the start and 1,000 in each following month. An in-chat image costs 5 coins, five seconds of standard video 100 coins and one minute of a voice call 50 coins. So the monthly 1,000 coins buy 200 in-chat images or 20 call minutes, not both. Coin pack prices are not published. The official help says PayPal is not supported.

Deleting the account ends the active subscription automatically and takes 24 to 48 hours. You lose any remaining coins without a refund. If you only cancel, the coins stay usable until the paid term ends, but resubscribing later does not bring back unused coins. Cancelling does not trigger an automatic refund.

Dream Studio USA, Inc. operates the service from Delaware. Its privacy policy dated 2026-08-26 permits using user content to train AI models, and data transfers include the US. The official FAQ names an anime generator, and video and selfies are available. Age is handled by an 18+ affirmation, with possible document or biometric checks where required. The Trustpilot profile was removed as of 2026-10-28.

SpicyChat appears here without an affiliate link because two of its facts matter in Germany: it has euro prices and a documented third-party age check. Since 2026-09-08, Get A Taste costs €5.95 per month or €60 per year. True Supporter costs €19.95 per month or €199.95 per year, and I'm All In costs €29.95 per month or €299.95 per year. The euro amounts are the same numbers as the dollar amounts (checked 2026-10-28). The provider does not say whether VAT is added at checkout.

The free tier includes core chat, the character library and 3 user personas, with no published numeric daily cap. Paid tiers raise the context window to 4,000 tokens on Get A Taste, 8,000 on True Supporter and 32,000 on I'm All In. These figures describe capacity, not how well the model recalls things. The top tier includes text-to-speech, and the premium documentation describes private image generation. Settings control explicit language and image blur.

Age assurance uses a video selfie, with ID as a possible fallback. The published list of mandatory regions includes the UK, France, Italy, Australia and selected US states. Germany is not named, which does not mean it is exempt. Payment by Visa, Mastercard or Discover renews automatically, while crypto is a one-time payment. The statement shows NDAI.CC. Older subscriptions keep their pre-September price only until the plan changes or lapses.

To cancel, open Profile and Manage Subscription. Deletion sits under Profile, Advanced, Delete Account and cannot be undone. The native iOS app was removed, so iPhone users rely on the home-screen web app and Android users on an official APK. Trustpilot showed 2.0 from 62 reviews on 2026-10-28.

Replika is one of the longest-running companion apps and the only service here with a German interface listed in the App Store (checked 2026-10-28). We have not assessed how well it converses in German. Chatting and avatar customisation stay free, but there is no published numeric daily cap and no paid trial.

Instead of one Pro price, the German App Store lists several euro SKUs: MONTHLY €8.99, Monthly €15.49, YEARLY €55.99, Annual €50.99 or €69.99, Annual ULTRA €79.99 and Replika Platinum €78.99 with no stated duration. Pro adds relationship status, activities, image generation, voice messages and calls. Ultra adds saving messages to memory, and Platinum lists selfie videos and video recognition. Which price applies to you depends on the offer shown in your account.

The Memory section is useful in practice. Tap the companion's name on the home screen to read and remove individual saved facts. To remove the whole chat history, you have to delete the account. Profile data, messages and preferences are kept up to 60 days after the contract ends, and some financial and device records for at least 10 years.

Deleting the account does not cancel billing. Cancel in Settings under Subscription or through the platform you paid on; for PayPal, use Manage Automatic Payments. Sales are final once digital access starts, apart from store refunds and billing errors. In April 2025 the Italian data protection authority fined the operator, Luka, Inc., €5 million over past failures on legal basis, transparency and age verification. The decision is under appeal and is not a ban in Germany. Users must be 18 or older.

Kupid AI advertises weekly amounts in euros. That looks local, but it leaves the full commitment unclear. Pro is displayed at €3.44 per week next to a crossed-out €12.99, and Ultra at €5.75 per week next to €24.99 (checked 2026-10-28). The page does not show the billed total or the selected billing period, so the weekly figure is not what you are charged. The pricing page says there is one payment and nothing renews, while the terms describe cancellation. Check the checkout before paying.

The allowances are concrete. Pro includes 25 photos, 8 videos and 12 voice minutes per week plus 4 custom characters. Ultra includes 75 photos, 25 videos, 35 voice minutes and 8 custom characters. Voice minutes do not prove that live calls are available. The pricing comparison names the last 100 messages as context, which is a claimed limit, not long-term recall. You can send a few test messages before registering, but the exact number is not confirmed.

Coins from subscriptions, trials or promotions expire 6 months after they are granted. Packs you buy directly do not expire, and the coins closest to expiry are spent first. The terms describe digital sales as final after use. To cancel, contact support through the email link in the terms.

Servalot Ltd operates the service from Cyprus and describes GDPR rights. Personal data is normally kept for 6 years after account closure, which sits awkwardly with the anonymity the marketing promises. You request erasure through the controller contact. The terms require users to be 18 or older but do not name a method for checking subscribers' age. Trustpilot showed 3.1 from 17 reviews on 2026-10-28.

GirlfriendGPT runs at gptgirlfriend.online and is operated by NextDay AI Incorporated in Montreal. It is a browser and PWA character catalogue where you can also create your own characters. An official Android APK exists, but there is no native store listing. The free start is small and counted in total: the terms describe an illustrative 10 to 20 messages across 2 to 3 characters, not a daily allowance. You can earn more credits by completing tasks (checked 2026-10-28).

Paid plans are monthly message allocations between 5,000 and 20,000, and unused messages do not roll over. The public terms describe these allocations rather than a fixed euro price, so set a budget only after you see the checkout. The policy footer shows Visa, Mastercard and Discover, and billing can also go through CCBill. Images, video and voice messages are offered, but the terms do not say which plan unlocks which media.

To cancel, use Manage subscription and wait for the confirmation email. CCBill purchases are cancelled under Billing, Cancel Subscription. Access lasts until the end of the paid period. Refunds are generally excluded except for payment errors or technical problems; other requests are reviewed case by case within 14 days.

The privacy policy dated 2026-04-13 grants GDPR rights to EU users but normally keeps personal data for 6 years after account closure. You request erasure through support. Content passes an automated filter and flagged items get a manual review, so confidentiality here does not mean end-to-end encryption. The age gate is an 18+ declaration with no ID check. Trustpilot showed 2.7 from only 4 reviews on 2026-10-28.